Does anyone have any advice or examples for a good spatialization patch, for manually or randomly controlling which speaker has the most of a specific signal. I'm only working in stereo right now, but quad would be cool too. Thanks!

Check out [vbap] as a generalized multi-speaker panning technique.

i downloaded the ggee library of deken but it only has the vbap help file, the object isn't included. does anybody know where else I might be able to source it from? Thanks

ceammc lib have a lot of tools for spatialisation.
Fom simple [spat.pan4~] to complex HOA (High order ambisconic) spatialisation's tools.